If you find yourself obsessing and pining over somebody who you know does not have the mind and heart to genuinely care for you then it’s probably the pain of pursuit that you’re obsessed w - not them! You for some reason do not believe that you are deserving of an easy and comforting love. So you chase situations that validate your poor self-perception. Just a thought. It’s not worth it to resent people 4 not loving you. Ask yourself why you are still fighting to be seen there when you could just. Move on towards reciprocation
Once you find reciprocated love it’s so much better than chasing something that will never satisfy you.
